How to Recognize Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Month: the loved baby shower | Sarah Philpott

How to Recognize Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Month: the loved baby shower


Miscarriage, Ectopic pregnancy, Molar pregnancy, Stillbirth, Fatal Birth Defects, SIDS, Fatal Accidents

Oh, my heart aches for these families who have experienced such tragedy.

October is Infant & Pregnancy Loss Awareness Month — set aside by President Ronald Reagan in 1988,  as a time to cherish these precious babies and show love to their families.

In memory of these tiny souls- who were wonderfully and fearfully made, I invite you to participate in the worldwide Loved Baby Shower.

Would you join us? The Loved Baby Shower is an opportunity to honor babies who now reside in Heaven by helping a precious living child or mother in need.

Each year, in the United States alone, over 4,000 infants die unexpectedly. Statistically 1 in 4 pregnancies end in miscarriage (the death of a baby before 20 weeks gestation) and 1 in 260 deliveries end in stillbirth.

This is a heartbreaking number of families who mourn.

I’ve found that many hurting mamas and daddies turn their pain into a passion for helping others. Grief gives us the gift of empathy, doesn’t it?

Over time, compassion fills our souls– compassion for other grieving families and compassion for children in need.

The pain doesn’t subside, but–as author Suzie Eller says, our mended souls go from needing help to giving help.

Loved Baby Shower

Last year, a member of our Loved Baby Christian Pregnancy Loss Support & Encouragement Group wrote she was hosting a baby shower at her church in honor of her baby who she miscarried earlier in the year.  The items collected were sent to pregnant women in need.

Melissa’s generous spirit encouraged me to host a Loved Baby Shower during the month of October.

Would you care to join us?


Last year we partnered with Bethany Christian Services and helped provide much-needed items to refugee children.  The shower was a huge success.

This year we invite you to honor your child by making a difference and spreading awareness in your local community.   Gather items for babies, mothers, or bereaved mothers in need.

Here are some ideas:

  • send a box of diapers or a stuffed animal to a faith-based crisis pregnancy center to help a young mother who has chosen life over abortion
  • take a blanket to your local hospital to be given to a new mother who is in financial need
  • create a care package for a mother going through loss and take it to your local hospital to be given to a mother who comes in and finds out she is miscarrying her child or is having a stillbirth
  • make a donation to your local library, art center, or other community organization
  • come up with your own idea

Do this in honor of YOUR loved baby.

Attach a special note to the package so the recipient knows your gift is in memory of your child who is in Heaven.

I do hope you’ll join our efforts.  And then– on National Pregnancy And Infant Loss Remembrance Day (October 15th)– we will all join together and light a candle in honor of our loved babies.

Care Package Ideas for a Mother Who Faces Loss:

Tea Bags


Journal & Pen

Ornament for Christmas Tree

Copy of a Book You’ve Found Helpful

Personal Note


Relaxing Shower Gel

Loved Baby Logo HeartWe Invite You To Join Our Pregnancy Support Group: Loved Baby Christian Pregnancy Loss Support & Encouragement This group is a place of support and Christian encouragement where you share comments and questions related to most any topic of miscarriage, stillbirth,  pregnancy loss,  pregnancy after loss, ttc, and infertility.



About Sarah

Sarah Lewis Philpott, Ph.D lives in the south on a sprawling cattle farm where she raises her two mischievous children (and one little baby!) and is farm wife to her high school sweetheart. It's quite the chaotic household, but she adores the blessings God has provided. Sarah is represented by The Blythe Daniel Literary Agency. Her book, Loved Baby: 31 Devotions for Helping you Grieve and Cherish Your Child After Pregnancy Loss, will be published in October '17 by Broadstreet Publishing. You can go ahead an pre-order it on Amazon, Barnes & Nobles, and at Christian Book. Sarah is a lover of coffee (black), rocking chairs, the outdoors, and Hemingway. Visit with Sarah at her All-American Mom blog where she writes about life on the farm and cherishing life in joy & in sorrow.

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